It's been more
than a month since I posted on Alma ’s
blog. I was hoping that I would be continuing to update everyone on what's
going on with Alma
but it looks like blog posts will be on a more intermittent schedule now that
she is no longer living in our home. While much of my focus has been on getting
Alma settled at
Pheasant Ridge, I have also been keeping busy trying to get our house back in
order and looking for a new job.
Things are going
fairly well where Alma
is. I have a few concerns and am working on getting those straightened out as
quickly as possible. The director that was there when we first moved Alma in has been replaced.
Due to the fact that there is so much flux, there are many inconsistencies and
that concerns me. One big issue for me is that they keep the resident’s rooms
locked at all times. I have a key but Alma
has no way to go in and out of her room freely. The only thing that concerns me
about that is I do not feel confident that the three nurses on staff can safely
unlock the door to thirty resident’s rooms and evacuate all of them in the case
of an emergency. I met with the new director today and while she was a very
pleasant person, she really had no answer for me other than “we keep the
resident’s rooms locked for the privacy and protection of each resident”. It
just really concerns me that they do not seem to have a cohesive plan for
evacuation. Fortunately, I am a big enough nerd to look up the state standards
and regulations for assisted living facilities in Virginia and learned that these procedures
should be in place. However, there was no reference to residents who are
incapable of self evacuation and locks on doors.
I know I’m being
pretty picky and I’m okay with that. Alma
pays a lot of money to be there and I believe that she should have the best
care possible. I am trying to be aware of my tendency for bulldozing and am
working on being mindful of the way I come across. Therefore, I am working on
finding a balance between that and getting Alma ’s needs met in the best way possible.
On a more
positive note; I learned today that Alma
might have a little romance growing at Pheasant Ridge with one of the four male
residents. The new director shared with me that he went over to her the other
night and asked her to go walking with him. Then they held hands while making
several laps around the building. Afterwards, the director overheard them
discussing the possibility of farming together. The whole thing is especially
sweet considering Valentines Day is tomorrow. When I asked Alma what she would like for Valentines Day,
she replied, “Oh, I really need some of those really good brownies”. I’ll take
those to her tomorrow.In the meantime, check out these sweet pictures from Alma's first couple of months at Pheasant Ridge.